W will be away in Bintan for some company function for 3 days this week.
So I will be single again!
I was thinking to myself yesterday where I can bunk over for the 2 nights. I love staying over once in a while at some friend's place. Especially those with kids. Just love to see the kids' sleepy faces when they get up in the morning. But the idea seems abit weird now. Not sure why...ha!
Something unpleasant happened yesterday. On one hand, I wished it didn't happened. On the other, I'm glad it did cos it's a just matter of time that something like this would happened. I believe this help put things out in the open and make everyone more aware of their boundaries.
My advice to all those going-to-get-married folks out there...DO NOT stay with your in-law!!
There is a lot of sense why the B says "leave and cleave".
Having the emotional as well as the physical distance is important.
I rather maintain the physical distance and keep the relationship amicable than to stay together and have so much conflicts and heartaches. It's just not healthy for married couple.
Well....let's see how things go.
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2 comments:
why don't men see this????
isn't it so much better that one keeps a reasonable distance and be on better terms with one's in laws?
why doesn't C realise that I will be much happier to have his parents over to stay if :
1) I know how long they are staying (often they don't decide straight awya, so i'm like... wanting to know how long i have to tahan but cannot ask them straight out)
2) they don't stay for long!!!!!!!!
why can't he realise this????? doesn't take MUCH brain, right?????
but come stay with me for 3 days la!! :)
I wish i can la...it's so far away. You ask C to send me the airticket and I will be there right away!
Rather spend three days with LM than stay in HV.
Sigh....sigh
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